When I went to the clinic for the transfer I had to have a full bladder. I got there a bit early and they were running a bit behind so my bladder got very uncomfortably full. A nurse came and asked how I was doing and said that if I felt like I was going to pee on the chair that I could go to the bathroom and pee just a little. I told her I was more afraid of peeing on the doctor than on the chair and that yes, I would like to go just a bit. She handed me a very small paper cup and told me I could fill it twice. I somehow managed to do that and when I went for the transfer they still commented on my full bladder. I was very proud of my bladder control.
Apparently I do not have control when peeing on sticks. It took very little encouragement from James for me to take a test yesterday. 12dpo, evening urine and a very clear positive. Nothing faint about it. At the moment I am pregnant.